Friendship

As I sit here today in this state of recovery, I have alot ot time to reflect on things that I usually don't think about. Maybe if I'd had time on my hands before I would've decided to rid myself of alot of people long before this. I ask myself how can some people actually call themselves your friend with a straight face? A friend is there for you when you need them without you having to ask them to be. A friend tells you if you've done something to offend them instead of waiting for the perfect opportunity for the great "catch-back". A friend understands that as you get older and form other relationships and build your family (if there is a history between the two of you), then you have to always remember and understand that we will both have to put forth an honest effort to make time for each other...quality time, not bullshit drive-bys whenever you happen to be in the neighborhood. A friend's love is unconditional, unwaivering, it's not envious nor is it competitive (especially after a certain age).

Some may feel that I expect too much from someone I consider a friend. Here's the thing, I dont expect anything from anyone I'm unwilling to do in return. With that being said, before you call yourself a friend ask yourself if any of the above mentioned qualities apply to you. If not, GREAT! If so, take a minute to reflect; look in the mirror and have a deep and honest conversation with yourself. At this point, don't bother calling me, I'll probably be on the other line with my friend.


...that's what it is then!